My friend pretty much ruined my Halloween, aren't you supposed to mingle on

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Gabrielle

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Halloween and meet people!? So I was on campus for Halloween and met these guys and I wanted to drink and they invited me to their house so I went all the way up the drive way and she decided she didn't want to go because it wasn't that many people there (no one) lol but they had alcohol and they are pretty cute I just wanted to lose my virginity on Halloween and have hot sex and be drunkk but she ruined my night. DO i have a right to be mad?? I mean Halloween is a time to mingle and I could have accomplished all goals that night
I am very serious because it is rare when i meet hot guys who so readily invite me to their house AND there was alcohol which she DIDN'T HAVE she was just being a selfish c***block but I couldn't ditch her
We didn't even get to go inside.. we didn't even get a beer or anything
 
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TheItGirl

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honestly?? you don't have a right to be mad..your friend doesn't own you and therefore can't make you do something..if you wanted to stay with a bunch of random strangers, it's your choice..just like it's her choice to leave..you could have stayed but you didn't, so it is you who basically ruined your own halloween..your friend hasn't done anything wrong.
 
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pandax1

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I think your friend did not want to go in bc she did not feel it was safe or not going to be a lot of fun. If she felt uncomfortable, she has the right to leave. Just as you have the same right. If you wanted to stay, then it is your choice. If you wanted to get laid, then you should have stayed all by yourself with 2 drunk strangers in a deserted house. I think your friend has a good head on her shoulders.
 
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Koodo134

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Do you have the right to be mad? Not really did you read this over before you submitted it..? Your acting as if that was the last halloween youll ever get and like she backstabbed you or something.Get over it they'll be plenty more halloweens and boyss.!
 
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Tsukihime

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If this is even a serious post... you have NO RIGHT AT ALL TO BE MAD. I'm finding it hard to believe this is serious, though, since I can't believe anyone could be mad at their friend over something like this.

You shouldn't have expected your friend to be ok with being placed in an uncomfortable situation -- alone, with some random guys. She likely was only there to start with because she didn't want you to ditch her and/or because she was worried about you going off with some guys you don't know and getting smashed. Or she had second thoughts about the whole thing. In any case, she was likely being a good friend.

You can mingle and have fun, sure, but to lose your virginity to some random people when you're drunk? You should be thankful she was there to stop you! I hardly see how it ruined anything, unless you seriously think it's such a big deal that you didn't get laid. Which is really pathetic if that's the case.

When it comes down to it, you're the one not being a good friend here. You shouldn't want to put your friend in a situation she isn't ok with.

Anyway, Halloween isn't just about parties, I spent a night at home handing out candy this year. Boring, yeah sure, but a million times better than getting shitfaced and losing my virginity to some stranger.

Ok, so you think SHE was being selfish? Selfish how? She went to their house. She didn't want to do any more than that. Good for her. If you wanted to do more, maybe you could get their numbers and hook up some other time.

Fine, you didn't even go inside. Well that's because that wasn't the type of night she had planned when she went out with you, or because she was having second thoughts. Had you told her "man, I wanna lose my virginity tonight, so don't try to stop me!"? I doubt it. She was being put on the spot to do what you wanted (being alone with some guys=not cool if it's not what you want to be doing), instead of what she had likely had planned (having some fun, meeting some people, whatever=fun times for everyone).
 
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