my gf and i are serious but now shes been giving me reasons to not get closer.she...

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carljohnson

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...broke our relationship rules? we have been together for 3 years and we use to be real real close and we would promise eachother marriage and strict standards like no talking to guys whatsoever and i would be the only guy in her life but she smiled at guys from her school infront of me that can only mean they talk at school thats already 1 broken rule . and at her cousins church she would flirt with an older guy . she flirted with guy from her home town all during this relationship . but she is mature but flirty at the same time i wanna get closer but im scared shes gonna break our rules and my heart again she has done way way more things these are the minor things . any advice if i should get closer or trust her again and risk getting hurt again?? right now were kinda distant not close to where i tell her shes the most beautiful girl randomly but to the point where were just a serious relatinship..please serious answers only
 
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Livs1

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K, it seems like you and your girlfriend have a lot of jealousy issues. I don't mean to assume, because it may not be right, but you should give your girlfriend some boundaries (as in she is ALLOWED to talk to guys but she isn't allowed to flirt) and vice versa. My boyfriend did that and he ended up liking another girl because I wouldn't let him talk to other girls.. He finally realises what i meant by "no talking to girls" though, so yeah. Him and I are allowed to talk to the opposite sex, but no flirting and such.. I think you need to sit your girlfriend down and let her know how much it's hurting you and making you feel distant.. It's the fact that you won't let her do her own thing sometimes that's making her do that. Good luck
 
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Megan

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Break the rules? if she is flirting with another guy you need to let her go, she obviously doesn't care enough about you to remain faithful. It sounds like shes talking to other guys and telling them stuff about you to make you look bad, she loves the attention.
 
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