untill recently? my gf is in pain with long term injury.. She is also doing her degree final year. She suddenly stopped being motivated to do anything and talks of dropping out, sex has stopped, i think shes starting to self harm. She seems fine most of the time but then she blows up at me, usually over the housework but ive spent the last 3 days cleaning etc and she still blows up at me randomly. She wont open up to me to talk about whats wrong and tells me to get out, frankly its getting to the point where i dont want to deal with her. But i worry about her too much and we do love each other. I dont know what to do to help her work through it. She says her fixating on the mess is because she is obsessive compulsive but that doesnt make sense to me as over half the mess is hers. I think shes distracting herself from real issues