ok as far as i know im a normal 22 year old man. im like 5' 10'' 145lbs Im pretty athletic i guess i just graduated college YEAH. anyways, im not a sissy or punk or weakling or any other name Im imagining some people are thinking but I've been with this girl for like 2 year's. At first, We were just always having fun going out all the time, then in the space of about 3 months, she didnt want us to go anywhere and then she started picking fight's, then one day we had a real fight. ever since then its like she wants to fight me shes a boxer and im stronger than her but shes so wiry because she was a gymnast so she always wins. But if we argue then shell start pushing me and if i push her back shell start hitting me but she wont let me move when shes up in my face so once im backed into the wall im gonna move and thats always when we start fighting, im not a punk either I can fight ok I just dont want to and if we dont fight then I dont have any "rights", and leaving her is not an option right now.......how do avoid some one who wants to fight? what can i say to her? the only thing that has worked was the police but she cut the phone off yesterday and i cant email the cops.... any ways we always end up fighting when i move to get away because if she pushes me into something she always starts wrestling or hitting. what can i do to avoid the idk "moment" when we start to argue without being a dog to her? Im not a wimpy btch either so dont leave any stupid answers like man up or grow some blls. because shed probably beat you up even worse stupid
my girlfriend beats me up when we argue?
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Man, that's awful! I'd say your best option would be to get out of the relationship. If she keeps beating you your relationship will never work. If you can't leave her though, try to avoid subjects that will provoke her. If she does try to fight though, don't fight back. There's a good chance that she's fighting because that's what she enjoys doing. If she's a boxer, she's been trained to fight every chance that she gets. When she tries to pick a fight, drop the subject and apologize for aggravating her. If that doesn't work, just DON'T fight back! Even if she hits you, NEVER hit a girl. That makes us even more mad. The first chance you get though, get out of the relationship, otherwise, you could get seriously hurt.
Man, that's awful! I'd say your best option would be to get out of the relationship. If she keeps beating you your relationship will never work. If you can't leave her though, try to avoid subjects that will provoke her. If she does try to fight though, don't fight back. There's a good chance that she's fighting because that's what she enjoys doing. If she's a boxer, she's been trained to fight every chance that she gets. When she tries to pick a fight, drop the subject and apologize for aggravating her. If that doesn't work, just DON'T fight back! Even if she hits you, NEVER hit a girl. That makes us even more mad. The first chance you get though, get out of the relationship, otherwise, you could get seriously hurt.
Wow, if she picks fights with you THAT often, you should really think about moving on. Sorry, but a relationship like that just doesn't look good for the present or the future. And she cut the phone off?? That should really be the last straw for you! She has no right. The police are there specifically for if you feel threatened/in need of help, and she shouldn't take that privelage from you, especially when she's the one you want to call the cops on. Hope this helps 
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This is physical abuse. You have two options. Ask her if she would be willing to go to couples counseling. If not, you need to get out of this relationship. Then get some counseling yourself.