My girlfriend (21) and I (23) had been seeing each other for almost four years (Two years semi-long distance about an hour apart) and things seemed great but one day out of nowhere one of my other female friends tells me that my girlfriend tried to kiss her. I confronted her about it that night and she actually admitted seeing a girl in her town a few times and that they had fooled around a little. She was crying and begging me to give her a chance I kinda flipped out and decided we should split up and see what happens for a little while.
I liked it I was working out more, eating better and just all around feeling better, oh and saving a ton more money ha, but I just couldn't push myself to go out and get with other girls for some reason I dunno 4 years was a long time to just split like that. Basically had to relearn the whole game all over
After a few weeks she started messaging me again and eventually we started seeing one another on a regular basis again and things seemed like were better between us and she would call me a lot and just be there for me when I wanted her to be. So we started dating exclusively for a few weeks or what I thought was exclusive, but then I get a message from a random number apparently a ex of hers saying all this about her dating a few girls since then and all this crazy stuff. I read over it a few times and finally called her and she said she didn't know I meant she couldn't see girls but she admitted seeing one girl but that the girl ended up being crazy and made all the rest up. She seemed to really regret it all I mean she was crying like crazy and I couldn't get her to calm down. She wanted me to give her one more chance and told me she could be faithful. I told her I would have to think and that I would call her later.
Now I really cant decide what to do its been a few days and she messages me saying she would be 100% exclusive if I give her one more chance and that she will do everything in her power to prove it to me and all this stuff. I am really stuck between sides, I do really love her so much but at the same time I gave her a chance already and she blew it.
What are you opinions? I do really love this girl but I just don't know how she could ever make things right. Do I give her a chance?
I liked it I was working out more, eating better and just all around feeling better, oh and saving a ton more money ha, but I just couldn't push myself to go out and get with other girls for some reason I dunno 4 years was a long time to just split like that. Basically had to relearn the whole game all over
After a few weeks she started messaging me again and eventually we started seeing one another on a regular basis again and things seemed like were better between us and she would call me a lot and just be there for me when I wanted her to be. So we started dating exclusively for a few weeks or what I thought was exclusive, but then I get a message from a random number apparently a ex of hers saying all this about her dating a few girls since then and all this crazy stuff. I read over it a few times and finally called her and she said she didn't know I meant she couldn't see girls but she admitted seeing one girl but that the girl ended up being crazy and made all the rest up. She seemed to really regret it all I mean she was crying like crazy and I couldn't get her to calm down. She wanted me to give her one more chance and told me she could be faithful. I told her I would have to think and that I would call her later.
Now I really cant decide what to do its been a few days and she messages me saying she would be 100% exclusive if I give her one more chance and that she will do everything in her power to prove it to me and all this stuff. I am really stuck between sides, I do really love her so much but at the same time I gave her a chance already and she blew it.
What are you opinions? I do really love this girl but I just don't know how she could ever make things right. Do I give her a chance?