...to me about it. Kept second secret.? Dating for one year. I'm 56, she's 46. Committed relationship where we say that we love each other. A few months ago she told me that she was going to FL with her girlfriend for a week in November. I like that we have separate interests. I asked her a in early August if she wanted to go to Colombia (South America) with me for my friends wedding in December. Said no, she couldn't get time off. I decided not to go because there is a pre wedding in the US and the trip costs a lot. Early last week my friend asked me to go to his house in Costa Rica next January. I asked her to go, she said she can't. I bought plane tickets with my friend- figured she has her November VK, I have mine in January. When I told her the the plane tickets were purchased she told me that she planned a second trip with another girlfriend leaving early January for two weeks. It seems to me the she was inconsiderate for booking the second trip without talking to me, sneaky for planning the trip without telling me. We had conversations where it should have been mentioned. BTW: We met last New Years Eve. New Years Day is the 1st anniversary of our meeting. Am I to sensitive for being upset? Should I think that I can't trust her to be up front and transparent?