Im 16 and a male, and am sick of the whores around now a days.... I wish there was a nice pretty , sweet innocent girl around, but I don't see any, or at least they are rare. I'm sure you are an adult woman not 16 but I can relate I suppose. A nice guy will come around eventually, just wait, and you'll see someone you deserve will pop up when you least expect it. Just go about your day and if some chemistry is there roll with it because going on the "dating scene" like you said only puts limits in your head, and already subconsciously excludes certain guys because they don't meet your pre set criteria. Good luck, keep looking around, but don't go rent a whole team of explorers to find him lol