My husband refuses to introduce me to his family!?

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IwishIwasaRaccoon

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My husband and I got married about 3 months ago. We were dating for 1 year and decided to get married very spontaneously... My family knew all along that we got married but he refuses to tell his family about our marriage! I'm getting kind of worried. I know he doesn't have the greatest relationship with his parents but still I think they should know about this! When I mention his parents he gets mad and refuses to talk about it although he talks with his mom regularly. How should I understand this?
His family is upper class but he moved out when he was about 18 living on his own, I'm worried that he is ashamed of me...since my family is not that rich ...
what should I do? just let it be?
 
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jackie

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There is a reason why he's acting this way, but unless you just want to keep getting him upset, drop it. He will tell you when he thinks it's the right time. Mean while enjoy our new husand, and don't worry about it. Things will come out in due time.
 
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piglet

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Maybe if he ran away and only has contact with his mother, the relationship between him and his family is fragile, so maybe he thinks springing a spontaneous marriage on them might cause them to drift further apart. Don't worry, i doubt it's anything to do with you. Affairs between him and his family are personal and he probably wants to wait a bit so he can prepare himself to introduce you all. Also the fact that a mother hasn't attended her own son's wedding would hurt her a lot, so he might think it better to ease her into it.
He'll come round, let him do what he thinks is best because they are his family :)
Congratulations on getting married btw:)xx
 
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Nehru

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No,you should not think in those terms. Think positive. He may have his own reasons. Try to make him understand that you trust him. Gradually, he will open up.
 
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