My mom always complains and fights with my dad ! Please help?

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Badu

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So my mom and dad argueing everytime...I am so sick of it
My mom always complaining that she has married the wrong man, how poor she is, that she shouldnt have done it and stuff like that
I dont defend my dad caz I know there are some things that he could do for family but he didnt but
wtf If she think that she married the wrong man why live with him for more then 20 years ??!!!
He says her so you dont like, lets divorce, find yourself another man etc
But only thing she does its bitching...I am really tired to hear all the day arguing and fighting..
Guys, that makes me so sad :/
What to do ?
 
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Kris

Member
I think you should sit them all down in a room with you and talk to them about how it is affecting you. Hopefully afterwards they will all make an effort to change.
 
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veronica

Member
every ones parents get in to it at some time or another and no child likes hearing the people they love talk down on each other.
You're not alone, my parents use to fight almost every other day and since im the youngest and still living at home, i was the one that was caught in between. My mom would take me out to eat so she could vent and my dad would ask me to sit with him after he got off work and do the same.
its not easy for anyone in this situation but you have to think about them and put yourself in their shoes. yeah they're all grown and your parents but they're regular people, they hurt, cry and feel all the emotions you feel when your in a relationship. its easy to say that they could have just left each other but they have alot of responsibilities. i'm not saying your the cause of this at all, i'm just saying they can't just walk out on each other like our generation does on a teen romance.


put yourself in their shoes and be there for them.
 
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josephrob2003

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maybe you should have a chat with the one your closest to, and say how this is affecting you. but I don' think this will change anything, neither one will give in or move on. You didn't say your age, but couldn't you move out?,failing this, just stay in your room, or go out wilth your friends
 
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