My mom is jealous of me and my boyfriend's moms relationship!!?

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She is so welcoming, I mean whenever me and my mom have an argument I call my bf's mom and she lets me come over their to her house. She cooks me really good food. She is the mother of the best guy around. She listens to me without judgement. I love her son!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My mom is mad though b/c we used to be real close and I would tell he evrything, now I dont b/c she gets real nasty and starts screaming. However my mom is agry and says I just run to my boyfriend b/c my dad is not always there. Which is not true my mom nor dad are easy to talk to. They both judge me harshly instead of helping me. However my bf and his mom listen to me and my boyfriend is always there. He is awsome. Here are some of the things that he does;
-when I am sick he brings me medicine
-he visits me everyday after work no matter what time
-he cooks for me
-when i told him I wanted to wait for sex he respected that and waited 3 yrs lol
-tells me he loves me every morning and night even when we fight
-i hit him a couple times but he has NEVER hit me back.
-he loves me through thick and thin
- he treats me with respect
Shot Out To Ms.JHawkins(thats her name lol)

Oh and if my bf grew up in an abusive home does that mean he will abuse me. My friend says that it does but i think she is just jealous.
Like now for instance my mom is at a party and has not been at hoem since this morning. But she calls and asks if my bf is here and I say yes. And she starts acting crazy like tell him to leave my damn house. And then she told me to go to sleep.
It is impossible to talk to her ...like now she just said to me in regards to my bf being at my house "if u get pregnant i wont help you with the baby, so u have been warned". And in anger I said "who the hell said anything about a baby". My boyfriend then told me to calm down b/c she was trying to protect me but I dont get it.
john m i like ur suggestion but it wont happen b/c my parents grew up with the ur a child stay in a child's place type mentality. Plus the only thing they wanna know is if I am having sex. Which my bf's mom knows we are but not my parents.
 
You have a good bf.

If he grew up in an abusive home, doesnt mean he IS abusive. It is just the environment he grew up in.

ANd your mom....try talking to her. Tell her what you want. Be firm.
 
stop being so gawd dayam self centered not everyone is so so so so so jealous of you
like holyy crayap
get a liyaf
maybe they wanna help you but all you do is make false accusations jeex
dont hit him either
your lucky he hasnt left you
you homo
 
of course that doesnt mean your boyfriend will abuse you.
and talk to your mom. maybe you need to tell her. you may love your bf's mommy but you've always loved your mommy longer.
let her know she's still your mom no matter what and no one can replace that.
 
dam well your mom sounds meaner than mines lol but she might be jealous and if your bf grew up in a abusive home dosn't mean hes gonna abuse you.
 
not trying to sound parental or anything.cuz i hate when people do that, but....
i think your parents are not always as comforting as her because they are trying to actually be your parents and teach you somethings..

other peoples moms normally just try to be as nice and kind as possible to you. they are not the ones that have to raise you, and would never want to yell at someone elses kids.

thats just what i think...hope i kindaa helped(:
 
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