And I'm SOOO sick of it...? I've been trying to conceive for 2 years.
I've been pregnant twice but both ended in early miscarriage.
I told my mother the problems I was having in confidence that she wouldn't judge me..
but EVERYTIME we argue she brings it up..
even when we are argueing over something small and pointless she turns it into a personal thing..
like for example tonight I was over at her house and she said that my fiance owes her a computer because our dog (that she was dog sitting) made her spill her drink on it and it's now ruined..
All I said was that he wasn't going to buy her a new computer because he didn't tell our dog to do it... so why is it his fault... we argued and then she again brought up "no wonder God won't let you have children, you can't even take care of a dog." .. then when I start to tear up she continues to say things like "ooooh you're going to get emotional now." Even when I start to cry she doesn't stop attacking me.. I said to her tonight.. "What kind of mother are you...." and she of course said "One that can have kids".. It KILLS me when she says this.. I feel like that is the worst possible thing someone could ever say to me.. and she says it like it's no big deal.. she also says my fiance is out cheating on me all the time.. I honeslty want to cut her out of my life.. but I'm worried she'd tell everyone about my troubles having children... What should I do...?
I've been pregnant twice but both ended in early miscarriage.
I told my mother the problems I was having in confidence that she wouldn't judge me..
but EVERYTIME we argue she brings it up..
even when we are argueing over something small and pointless she turns it into a personal thing..
like for example tonight I was over at her house and she said that my fiance owes her a computer because our dog (that she was dog sitting) made her spill her drink on it and it's now ruined..
All I said was that he wasn't going to buy her a new computer because he didn't tell our dog to do it... so why is it his fault... we argued and then she again brought up "no wonder God won't let you have children, you can't even take care of a dog." .. then when I start to tear up she continues to say things like "ooooh you're going to get emotional now." Even when I start to cry she doesn't stop attacking me.. I said to her tonight.. "What kind of mother are you...." and she of course said "One that can have kids".. It KILLS me when she says this.. I feel like that is the worst possible thing someone could ever say to me.. and she says it like it's no big deal.. she also says my fiance is out cheating on me all the time.. I honeslty want to cut her out of my life.. but I'm worried she'd tell everyone about my troubles having children... What should I do...?