My mother in law still talks to the woman my husband committed adultery

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with! What would you do? I am having such a hard time with this. I have forgiven him, but it always reminds me of his affair every time I see her on his mother's FB page. Or just hearing her name! I find it inappropriate, especially considering this is a Christian woman we are talking about here! When I brought my feelings to her attention, she responded to me with, WELL, YOU NEVER KNOW HOW GOD IS GOING TO USE YOU IN A PERSONS LIFE. I even told her it upsets me and makes me feel like she condones what happened. She is even nicer to this person than she is to me, and I have given her two grandchildren! It makes me sick! I do not want to start a family war over it, but what would you do if you were in this position? Thank you.
 
I'd tell my husband how I felt, he should confront her if she's not listening to you, and I'd delete her from my facebook. This would bother me too, so I see why you're upset. I think you should invite her and your husband to a family therapy session, maybe that will help all of you to get past this. An affair is a hard thing to deal with, I hope you and your husband have gone to therapy together to work through it.
 
Believe me I know exactly how you feel. I spent about three years not speaking to my mother in law so, when my husband cheated, she could not wait to befriend the sorry bit$h he cheated with. If I were you, I'd stop communication with my mother in law.
 
This is grossly inappropriate of your mother in law. Delete her from your facebook. When she asks why tell her that she is clearly disrespecting you and your marriage after you have asked her to stop. There is NO reason for her to have relationship with your husbands ex lover. Your husband should be siding with you on this and should talk to his mother and find out what she is trying to accomplish by her actions.
 
Wow. That is weird. I think she is outta line, but of course, you could simply not go to her FB page.

Still, I see your point, and I'd talk to your husband about this. He should feel pretty sheepish about the whole thing and NOT want you to be reminded of his disastrous decision, ever. Never mind repeataedly by his own mother!

She sounds like a wack job. The Christian logic is esp. sinister.
 
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