ok, so I asked this question a few days ago.
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AthKq8lrfota6ukeNveH2EggBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20090318125146AA8I1u6
and the advice was to tell my parents the truth. I did so, and I had to tell them the story about 4 times. My mum went APE, and keeps saying stuff like "I hate you, you weak little theif!" and "Your not my daughter, my daughter would be stronger than this. You are a liar and a thief." and it is rather upsetting, becasue he cant seem to see that I am truly sorry. I even said I wouldnt go to the 2 week cadet camp as punishment.
I was hoping she would get over it and forgive me, but today she said "Ive been doing some investigating, and you're story doesnt add up."
I was confused, and asked why, becasue I HAD been telling the truth. she wouldnt tell me why, and stated screaming at me, calling me a liar, and saying being a theif was bad enough, etc. etc. and I said Im not a liar, but she wont beleive me. She wont get over it, and just when I think we are getting along a little better, she throws a question at me out of the blue about it, and it leads to an argument. I have said Im sorry about a thousand times, done chores, offered to pay money to charity, and come up with punishments for myself, but she keeps on at me. It makes me feel really upset, and I cry almost every night. I dont feel I can talk to her anymore. what shall I do?
thank you. x
oh, and theres no point in talking to my dad, he just says "You made your bed now lay in it." and wont listen either. I am living in a winter house in the middle of spring
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AthKq8lrfota6ukeNveH2EggBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20090318125146AA8I1u6
and the advice was to tell my parents the truth. I did so, and I had to tell them the story about 4 times. My mum went APE, and keeps saying stuff like "I hate you, you weak little theif!" and "Your not my daughter, my daughter would be stronger than this. You are a liar and a thief." and it is rather upsetting, becasue he cant seem to see that I am truly sorry. I even said I wouldnt go to the 2 week cadet camp as punishment.
I was hoping she would get over it and forgive me, but today she said "Ive been doing some investigating, and you're story doesnt add up."
I was confused, and asked why, becasue I HAD been telling the truth. she wouldnt tell me why, and stated screaming at me, calling me a liar, and saying being a theif was bad enough, etc. etc. and I said Im not a liar, but she wont beleive me. She wont get over it, and just when I think we are getting along a little better, she throws a question at me out of the blue about it, and it leads to an argument. I have said Im sorry about a thousand times, done chores, offered to pay money to charity, and come up with punishments for myself, but she keeps on at me. It makes me feel really upset, and I cry almost every night. I dont feel I can talk to her anymore. what shall I do?
thank you. x
oh, and theres no point in talking to my dad, he just says "You made your bed now lay in it." and wont listen either. I am living in a winter house in the middle of spring