My physical fitness is ruining my whole life!?

OK so I'm 13 and I'm a girl. My physical fitness sucks really bad. I am about 90 pounds; yeah sound OK for a 13 year old girl but whats going on is very different. When i was in 2nd grade i used to sit a strange way, like instead of criss cross i would sit with both of my legs out to both of my sides; if you looked at me from the front it would look like a W. I hope you know what i mean. Sorry if it didn't make any sense. I remember being very active and flexible until i sat like this. I remember my teacher saying, "Don't sit like that, Trust me." And since i was a rebellious little bugger i didn't listen. Now i totally regret it. I have ruined my body. I am so inflexible that i can't sit criss cross or do a cart wheel! I'm so scared! Now im in 7th grade and have to take P.E again. I am really weak to and so embarrassed to tell anyone. This is the only place i feel comfortable saying this. Please help me! I'm really scared!
Inflexibility- Can't even do a cartwheel
Weakness- Can't even do 1 push up!
Sometimes i find myself looking on YouTube at people who are flexible, then i say mean comments; only because i a jealous bit**. I feel really bad.
People tell me to stretch but i always feel sore and hopeless after that. It seems like nothing helps a bit! =(
 

EeTe

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You have not ruined your fitness. You're barely 13 years old! Teachers tell you not to slouch and not to do this or that for when your older, say 50 years old, NOT 13! Just start exercising and stretching. You haven't messed yourself up. I've sad like that lots when I was little and i have no problem.
 
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