My relationship with my boyfriend is boring...?

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Blahhh

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I'm 24, I'm in my first serious relationship of 9 months. We have our occasional fights I guess like any couple would have. Other than that he treats me good, loves me, my friends & family like him. But his immaturity is starting to be a turnoff for me. I don't look forward to hanging out with him or seeing him because of it. I never get excited and happy when he is around. I usually push him off when he tries to kiss me or touch me. Do you think I am falling out of love?
 
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NathanRomeo

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Yes, more than likely. You should love his attention when he tries to kiss you if you are in love with him. I suggest talking to him about his maturity and rebuilding your relationship. Either that, or break it off. Sooner rather than later, or else you will both get hurt badly.
 
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lMissAwesome

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you cold be, i can't say for certain.

you have a great relationship, it's his immaturity that is turning you off from him.

maybe try telling him to not be so immature, or suggest a break (not a break up) just a break, because sometimes a small break can clear your mind and you can decide if this guy is the one you want to be with or not
 
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greeneyes1

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This is your first serious relationship so you are probably keen to see what else is out there. Not a lot of ppl find love the first time round. If you cringe at his touch then let the guy down gently and move on- It would be worse to string him along. Go out and have some fun :)
 
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PeggyS

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You were never in love. You were infatuated with him. Love does not just evaporate after 9 months. Time to leave him. He is just not the right guy for you.
 
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robotaugenstine

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Has your relationship lost the excitement it had when you first started dating? In the beginning most relationships are full of passion and excitement. Do you remember how excited you used to be just to kiss her? Over time you get used to a person and the excitement fades. This is a good and bad thing. It is good because now you are able to think a little more logically. On the other hand it can sometimes make things quite boring. So here are some ideas you can use to bring the excitement back into your relationship.
 
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