My wife gets very jealous about a old friend who had/still has a bit of a...

[irish_lad_921]

...crush on me? The back story is the woman that still has a thing for me i have and always will treat her like a little sister nothing more and nothing less. My wife keeps thinking it's going to be something more one can and it pisses me off because it's never crossed my mind and i am not going to give up a great friend who i have had for allot longer then i have known my wife. yes this woman has a huge crush on me still and its just a kind of child hood crush you never get over and we all have them. But my wife is just to insecure with our relationship because she knows if something where to happen to me she would not be able to do any thing with her self. How do i keep this great friend who also talks to my wife and my wife has complete access to all emails and text messages i don't hide a thing how to make my wife understand she is a friend like a sister and nothing more with out her wanting me to choose between a life long friend or my wife.