I am 32 and my wife is 34. We have sex about twice, 3 times at most a week. We have had problems of infidelity on my part in the past and I have a child with the women I was involved with in the last affair I had. I have apologised and we have decided to work on our marriage, but it seems she is not very keen on making love to me. I love my wife, and I know she loves me too, but somehow we cannot seem to discuss relationship issues to do with feelings in our marriage without them turning into arguements. Is it possible that a couple cannot conclude issues without turning into arguements. She mostly seems to think I'm comparing her to other women I was involved with. We have 2 kids together and we both do not want to break our marriage. Please advise on what we should do to make our marriage work.