I recently discovered my wife was having an on line affair for nearly two years. During this time I was working 6 days a week and she was working 20 hours a week. She would spend up to 10 hours a day on line starting at 5am on her days off, a few hours before and after work. Now that I found out what she was doing she has told me she wants to work on our relationship she also told me she has stopped the affair. Now she has started working 35 to 40 hours a week. Any hours over the 20 hours she does not get paid for. I lost my job a few days after finding out about the affair and have asked her to spend more time with me and just do her 20 hours a week but she refuses. She says she needs to get her life back together and working for free is helping her do this. She also has told me that she is finding it hard to be around me while I am so angry. She also will not talk about the affair. Dose any one think she is trying to tell me some thing? What are your thoughts on this matter? Thanks.