need help to understand the guy i i have been with for 3 months everytime he

[Judy J]

leaves he doesn`t call? The guy I have really fell hard for comes over and we don`t want to let each other go. when he leaves and goes out of town to school he doesn`t even call me, iIdon`t talk to him until he goes back to work. What should I do I really care for him? He says he has alot of family matters to take care of before he can really do what he wants and it will take awhile.but I don`t understand how the family matters could keep us apart. What do I need to do now?

 

[Angela]

maybe he's just scared. or maybe he's just not as into as you think he is. 3 months isn't enough time to be serious, and you never know he might be telling the truth about his family matters that he has to take care of. if you're not that serious then try not to worry about it so much. the guy i've been seeing for 8 months never checks in with me, and i never check in with him. maybe he doesn't want a serious relationship with you. just tell him how you feel and talk to him about it. if you find you guys have different opinion on things then move on. you deserve someone who can give you everything you want and need!