Every time I date a guy, I get so hyper and nervous. Dating a guy distracts me both from work and school. Like the first time I dated a guy I was working and got fired. The second time I dated another guy I also got fired from the job, because I was screwing around with the internet spending too much time talking with the guys at work through instant message or email. It was very bad indeed. I also got very distracted from school because of guys and I procrastinated on homework. I felt addicted to email and instant message whenever guys are around and not occupied with my time. It is a problem for me. So how can I deal with this problem in the future when I start dating with guys again? By the way, these relationships ended so did my jobs. My age is 25 years old. Yes, these guys keep judging me that I do not know how to drive. It makes me feel sad because their words are hurtful. It is so sad. Help? How can I prevent this from happening to me again?