You know I agree that western society is better, superior, more humane and you're one lucky sob to be born in a place that has such a way of life. That said, we did a lot of our success off the backs of others. If we are going to achieve world peace, be able to get along with each other, and appreciate everyone for being human beings than we need to realize that and stop trying to "westernize" things. There needs to be a general standard, a human standard that works across the board and it needs to acknowledge that atrocities committed by western society are just as bad and are very much on the same level or worse of atrocities committed by others against their own people or towards others.
As far as the video goes, I think it does little to prove your point. Forgive my comments because I have only watched about 3/4 of the video, but the story of the abused girl in the begining is not at all unique to that area of the world. The only thing that was possibly different was the enabling of it to happen longer due to the social standard towards woman, but that is not a defining factor for it having happened for as long as it did. The USA has plenty of stories that are just the same, that have gone on just as long as that girl. I don't mean to sound callaused towards her predicament, but that's the reality of it. That doesn't speak for the Afghan people.
Also, the comments about women treating other women badly because that's all they know and what the men do to them: just a more extreme version of problems western countries have as well. It really is no different in principal, it's just more extreme and not regulated, nor is there an apparant organization to counter such treatment. That video showed me nothing at all to base any opinion on middle eastern countries being any different than anyone else other then they are a little behind the times in being proactve in stopping that kind of treatment (which is a pretty big dea). Everything is just more extreme there then what we who can use the internet to post on a forum generally experience. They aren't really that much different.
As far as that program you guys have in AUS, I think that's awesome. Is it only for citizens or does it apply for anyone in that sort of situation?