Okay, so we had SEX but there's a slight problem that's putting doubts in

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my head.. HELP? So last night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was our second time. We were a little worried because the first time it happened I was in a lot of pain and it took a long time for 'it' to get in. But this time 'it' went in in the first go, at start the pain was just like before but suddenly the pain decreased drastically. My boyfriend told me he was gaining pleasure and I did feel something there, like there was pressure. This went on until he reached in the condom (which was fast). We tried after like half and hour again, but this time the same problem happened, it wasn't getting in. There was a point when we thought it was in, but when I touched down there it was more like he was just rubbing against my area. So that put doubts in my head that when we thought we got it right the first time it could have just been getting rubbed? 70 percent of me says we got it right because I could feel pressure, and it was different, the other 30 percent is just getting the best of me. After hearing this, what do you guys think?

P.S - The last time we had sex there was a dot of blood, and yesterday there was no blood.
 
the blood was the popping of your cherry, idk my first time, i knew when it went in and it hurt at first but then felt very pleasant. you should be able to tell when it goes in, i dont really understand whats going on with your situation the only explanation would be your guys got a really small penor, try using lube or lotion next time
 
So sad. Not the experience you described as much as how old you probably are. He needs to slow down and use lot's of lube.
 
Some times it takes awhile for a guy to learn the angle of penetration! I think you would know if he was inside you especially if you felt pressure. Just keep practicing and you will both get it right- try some different positions with your legs if he is still finding penetration hard.
Blood is common the first time you have sex but not necessarily the time after.

Keep up the practice and help guide him into you.
 
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