chemistry starters? I was just wondering because I recently joined and said I was interested in a few profiles. The website said they would notify the person of my interest, and you can then send a small note and some "chemistry starter", which are just little activities to help click with someone I suppose. After all that, it gets put into your waiting list, and all you can do is look at that list and read "You are waiting on a response from so and so".
My question is, what if that person just instantly didn't like you and chose to decline and avoid any conversation? Would you know, or would that person remain on your waiting list forever? I guess I just assume if the site sends out an email, chances are that person will check the email regularly enough to know someone looked at their profile, and that should be enough to spark curiosity in anyone to go see who it was. If that is the case, then why would they not respond even with just the simplest of small talk?
My question is, what if that person just instantly didn't like you and chose to decline and avoid any conversation? Would you know, or would that person remain on your waiting list forever? I guess I just assume if the site sends out an email, chances are that person will check the email regularly enough to know someone looked at their profile, and that should be enough to spark curiosity in anyone to go see who it was. If that is the case, then why would they not respond even with just the simplest of small talk?