I want to make a pass at a woman in my class...she constantly says hi when she sees me at class as well as many others who do the same thing...after some time im starting to have serious wonders if this hi is something i build upon for a romantic move...since im considered eccentric in class its not clear if the girls are saying it to be nice or because they would allow me to make a move...im generally unhappy socially and very keen to make moves like this...it wouldnt pay off to be honest since i dont want to be mocked even slightly in case my idea is not based on something actual...the woman gives me such a joyful look when she talks but she never made an attempt to actually spend alot of time with me...she just gives me a generous hello along with a few other women there who do the same...it might be because i look strange socially but im not sure...i dont feel like being disappointed...this woman likes orbit gum maybe i should get her gum as a present as a hint?or maybe i should tell her that it would be nice to have her over at my house while saying that ofcourse only if shes not too busy and if she brushes the idea off i can just go back to not thinking about her as an option...i recently read in a good book that its a good positive thing to state your desires to the women rather than dwell and think too much...
now my question is simple...what would be a good line to on the one hand get her to know i am interested but on the other being on a safe side knowing she can not for certain reverse it on me if she were to wanna do such a thing in a negative way...meaning give her the interested message without her being able to prove it if you like...
other than that what do you think about the situation as a whole...
we are all in our twenties and i am about 6 years older than her...
please try to answer both my questions?
Please more answers i need this advise...
now my question is simple...what would be a good line to on the one hand get her to know i am interested but on the other being on a safe side knowing she can not for certain reverse it on me if she were to wanna do such a thing in a negative way...meaning give her the interested message without her being able to prove it if you like...
other than that what do you think about the situation as a whole...
we are all in our twenties and i am about 6 years older than her...
please try to answer both my questions?
Please more answers i need this advise...