Please help....is he still interested? I need answers!?

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I've known this guy for about 3 years--2007 to present. We became really close in 2008 through 2009. I liked him; he liked me. We were both just too afraid to go anywhere with it. I didn't see him and we weren't in much contact for the majority of the last part of 2009 and the start of 2010. He recently contacted me and asked to spend time together over the summer. I gladly accepted, and we began talking everyday for practically the whole month of May into June--I would call/text first sometimes and he would call/text first sometimes; however, it was mostly him first. We saw each other recently and had a nice "catch-up" talk.
Recently, he hasn't called in about 5 days. We are such good friends and would both like to be more than that. I am worried that he has lost interest. It would be so sudden and un-called for if so. His facebook is active, and I am close with his friends and family that support our relationship so could he just be waiting for me to call/text him? I began it the last time. I really want to see him again.
 
Call him and ask him to hang out. After you hang out with him one on one, gauge how he fills. During the hang out, send small hints that you are interested. Touch his arm, flirt, the usual, essentially give him the green light. If he doesn't take the hint, then he isn't interested.
 
You should just call or text him! If he text you, that means he misses you. If he doesn't, that means he's waiting for you to miss him back. :) Lol. Just talk to him. He sounds totally interested.
 
I feel if he is was interested in you he would had called. He may have just wanted to be friends.It doesn't matter what his friends think it is him that you want to have a relationship with. You could always text him to find out how he does feel or just ask. No since in wasting a summer going after someone who may or may not care. I wish you the best!.
 
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