MariaSilvia
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My ex and I (both in college and in NYC) had been dating for 3 months before he went away to Africa for 2 months during the summer, but we liked each other a lot and decided to obviously stay together throughout it, but we had a week to spend together before I then went away to study abroad in Spain for 6 months. The distance really strained our relationship; he also moved back home to California for a bit (dropped out of college) to get his life together and figure things out (i'm originally from NYC). The distance and time difference made us really weary, and we decided it was best to end things before we resented each other, and that we would keep in touch, and when we were in the same place again, we would want to see how things could be. He ended up staying in California for the whole time I was gone until now, and is coming back to NYC. Then the break up fighting began and we were really mean to each other. We haven't spoken much, both have been with other people, but I still have immense feelings for him. I don't think it's the same for him. He is a boy, and I also asked him if things were the same and he said "it's not bad, but they are different." What do you think? Do you think when he's back here a relationship will begin? Or judging by his lack of interest and the 9 months of being away from each other, it's more likely that he won't ever really want to be with me like that again?