Questioning our long distance relationship?

jesiie

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Me and my bf have been together for almost two months and we have both developed strong feelings for each other. The thing is he lives an hour away from me and would be moving farther away for college in september (3 hours away). When we first started out dating, he was super clingy and always wanted to talk to me and express his feeling for me. Now he doesnt express his feelings romantically anymore. He still calls me everyday but we don't talk for long like we used to. Plus he doesn't text me anymore. If he does, he won't respond to my text. I was questioning our relationship b/c i kept thinking he would leave me and just wanted to be with me until he found another girl closer to him. He got annoyed and he said i didn't trust him. We got into an argument and he said i hurt him. He said he could put up with waiting and being in a long distance relationship. But his actions weren't proving it. I decided to take a break but it wasn't much of a break cuz he kept asking if he could call me and he said he didnt want one anymore so we both gave it another shot. He told me he wanted to be with me since i was different than the girls he dated in the past. Now he works long hours and we don't talk much but we still talk on the phone. When we talk, i don't feel an emotional connection like i did before. Its kinda like i don't feel we are dating. He doesn't open up to me and tell me his feelings but he keeps asking me if i missed him. I don't know when to bring up the subject cuz he seems happy now and plus i don't wanna dampen his mood since he is going to Cuba on sunday. He always used to tell me that he knew we would last for a long time and we would make it through but now when i talk about the future, he says i shouldn't worry about it. Should i wait a while before i talk to him or do it immediately even though he may get hurt again? What should i say to him so he would open up to me instead of backing away? I don't know what to do :(
 
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