realizing i dont like my future sister in law- ranting this may be long -

kissmelong

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advice needed-badly? she always assumes she knows what your talking about and will even go as far as trying to finish your sentence (when you know she has no clue - and her 8 yr old son is exactly the same)

overly obnoxiously assertive - to the point of rudeness

acts like a tough girl but deep down shes a coward

makes plans for her mother to come over and do housework for her when she was on vacation (the mother)

got pissed when her brother and i got engaged - brother is 27 she is 35 she with her bf for many yrs and there will be no ring on her finger anytime soon - did she expect him to put his life on hold until her guy decides hes ready ???

she works for her common law hubby - 10+ yrs uh yea id say so - anyway - she goes to his offiice maaayyyybe 3 times a wk when shes not busy running around spending his money and she enters invoices and prints out bills - she calls this working - i disagree - work is when you go to a job consistantly because you have to not because your bored and have nothing else to do and forbid him from hiring an office person/chick to do so

her child is the by far the most annoying kid i have ever met - spoiled rotten! - never corrected - does whatever the hell he wants

she knows i do not have a good relationship with my mom - when we are all together, she hugs and holds her mom and calls her mommy - the womans not dying and shes usually complaining about her when shes not around - what gives? maybe this part is just me

she is insisting we add an $8 per person shrimp cocktail appetizer @ our wedding cause shes likes it?!?!?!?!

we hung out very often before her brother asked me to marry him - we were close - she was my only girlfriend/friend - i asked her to be my maid of honor - i regret this now

she insists on doing certain things and getting some stuff together for me wedding related - she is holding me up - where i had to just do some of it myself and im dreading when she finds out that i did - cause she will make a big stink about it - and ill just look like the over anxious bride to be

no matter what im going to look like the bad person here - im not close with my family - i have no friends to talk with this about - i tried talking to the fiance but he doesnt see it the way i do

help??
 
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