...in nov, im dating this guy that? is in the army. We have bin together for a month, im not going to c him until december when he comes back. Heres the little problem, i dated this other guy for 4 yrs b4 i met this new guy, I broke up with the ex and met my army sweetheart, i NEVER had sex with my ex because of the way that he treated me, so im wondering if i should have sex with my new guy when he comes back. Should i wait, i wanted to wait until im married so i can wear white and all that lol, weve so far just kissed. i dont know... im confused. damn temptation sucks 2.