Okay,.. so I was with a guy almost four years .. when it came to sex he was pretty Conservative [ if i said f**k me he would leave because he thought it was to vulgar ] anyway lately I have been hooking up with this new guy (me and the other guy obv. broke up ) anyway .. I went nearly 4 years without saying anything and now this new guy likes that type of stuff and constantly asks me to say ' hot stuff ' during .. and I have no idea what to say ! lmao ! Any general suggestions?