I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now things have been up and down with us. He's cheated on me many times, even when i was pregnant. I took him back after i noticed big changes in him. He stopped talking to all the girls, we would spend everyday together and talk all day till the night. But now those big changes are starting to fade. He talks to me every day but not as much, and we don't see each other everyday. I still have a hard time trusting him when he goes out bc of the past, so im constantly paranoid when he does.
Tonight he told me he doesn't talk to me as much bc i always bitch, but its just bc i get mad he doesn't talk to me as much, and i bring up the trust issues.
i want so bad to be with him and we're trying to make it work but i feel like im the only one putting effort into this relationship. i also want so bad to trust him but after all the lies its too hard. Am i suppose to be ok with just talking to him a few times a day IF that? How can i forget the past and trust that he wont cheat?
advice???
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To wildflower
1. i did get to know him before i commited if you didnt read the 4 year part.
2. And yes i do have girlfriends i wanted to get more opinions which is why this yahoo answers was invented.
3.And really if i have a problem with him i should just stay quiet as long as he's happy? I didnt realize we were in the 1950's.
but thank you for your answer hun : )
Tonight he told me he doesn't talk to me as much bc i always bitch, but its just bc i get mad he doesn't talk to me as much, and i bring up the trust issues.
i want so bad to be with him and we're trying to make it work but i feel like im the only one putting effort into this relationship. i also want so bad to trust him but after all the lies its too hard. Am i suppose to be ok with just talking to him a few times a day IF that? How can i forget the past and trust that he wont cheat?
advice???
***** complain
To wildflower
1. i did get to know him before i commited if you didnt read the 4 year part.
2. And yes i do have girlfriends i wanted to get more opinions which is why this yahoo answers was invented.
3.And really if i have a problem with him i should just stay quiet as long as he's happy? I didnt realize we were in the 1950's.
but thank you for your answer hun : )