CuriousGenius
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My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot lately. The biggest reason we have been fighting so much is that he has trust issues and is constantly accusing me of ridiculous things that aren't true. I spend most of my time with him, but when I go to the gym or I come home for a night, he will drive by my house and he has even told me he's driven past my gym and didn't see my car (which is weird because I was really at the gym). I keep telling him how important trust is in a relationship and he has to let go of his trust issues because I've been nothing but honest with him.
A couple of weeks ago, he got angry when he walked in the room and saw me put my phone down. (I was only googling something). He freaked out because he thought I was hiding something. I offered to show him I was just googling something and finished as he walked in. He got so angry that night he brought me home. Then he sent me angry text messages until 7am the next morning. The very next evening, I sent him a couple text messages. He did not respond, which was odd. I drove to his house to check on him, and there was a car parked in the driveway. There was a girl whom he had never mentioned before. She looked real dirty, skanky, and unattractive. She rushed out and drove away when I got there. I asked him who she was, and he said it was only a friend. He actually complains often that he has no friends. He only has like 2 friends and I've met them before.
A few days later I decided to take my own advice and trust him. But since then, I've been noticing a lot of his stories don't seem to be add up or make much sense. The last two nights he his cell phone seems to be turned off. But only at night. (because it goes straight to voicmail)
I asked him about it and he says he's not turning off his phone and he doesn't know what's wrong with it. Then he said when he looked at it the next morning, his phone showed him calling me 8 times that night and they were all missed calls. But he definitely never called me.
Also, he said he drove one state over to get a new driver's license. Then he said they told him at the DMV when he finally got there, that he had some unpaid tickets and a suspended driver's license. So then he texted me a little while later saying he found a baseball field to "hideout" at because he "snuck" out of the DMV out of fear the a trooper, who was also inside the DMV, would arrest him and that he wouldn't be coming back home that night. I asked him if he planned to sleep in the baseball feild and he said he might, he didn't know what to do. I haven't heard from since 7pm becuase he got upset that I was asking him questions... It is now almost 3am and his phone goes straight to voicemail again and he isn't home. I really don't know what to do about this relationship. I really don't trust him and his stories are getting weirder and harder to believe. I really don't have any proof though.... He tells me all the time how much he loves me but then things like this have been happening lately. What should I do?
Sorry for the misspelled words. It is 3am, I'm tired, stressed and was typing fast. lol
A couple of weeks ago, he got angry when he walked in the room and saw me put my phone down. (I was only googling something). He freaked out because he thought I was hiding something. I offered to show him I was just googling something and finished as he walked in. He got so angry that night he brought me home. Then he sent me angry text messages until 7am the next morning. The very next evening, I sent him a couple text messages. He did not respond, which was odd. I drove to his house to check on him, and there was a car parked in the driveway. There was a girl whom he had never mentioned before. She looked real dirty, skanky, and unattractive. She rushed out and drove away when I got there. I asked him who she was, and he said it was only a friend. He actually complains often that he has no friends. He only has like 2 friends and I've met them before.
A few days later I decided to take my own advice and trust him. But since then, I've been noticing a lot of his stories don't seem to be add up or make much sense. The last two nights he his cell phone seems to be turned off. But only at night. (because it goes straight to voicmail)
I asked him about it and he says he's not turning off his phone and he doesn't know what's wrong with it. Then he said when he looked at it the next morning, his phone showed him calling me 8 times that night and they were all missed calls. But he definitely never called me.
Also, he said he drove one state over to get a new driver's license. Then he said they told him at the DMV when he finally got there, that he had some unpaid tickets and a suspended driver's license. So then he texted me a little while later saying he found a baseball field to "hideout" at because he "snuck" out of the DMV out of fear the a trooper, who was also inside the DMV, would arrest him and that he wouldn't be coming back home that night. I asked him if he planned to sleep in the baseball feild and he said he might, he didn't know what to do. I haven't heard from since 7pm becuase he got upset that I was asking him questions... It is now almost 3am and his phone goes straight to voicemail again and he isn't home. I really don't know what to do about this relationship. I really don't trust him and his stories are getting weirder and harder to believe. I really don't have any proof though.... He tells me all the time how much he loves me but then things like this have been happening lately. What should I do?
Sorry for the misspelled words. It is 3am, I'm tired, stressed and was typing fast. lol