I have been in a loving caring fun relationship with a guy almost a year now. We do everything together and also hang out with our friends on our own. Problem is he doesn't see himself getting married for 5 years (he's a bit younger than me). I love him dearly but everything changed when I worked a flight with a Pilot. (I'm a Flight Attendant by the way) When I came onboard the airplane, the pilot was standing in the flight deck getting ready to do safety checks and etc. I couldn't help for go to him and shake him hand and speak. He has the most amazing smile and is really sweet. All of the other flight attendants thought he was gorgeous. He's single as can be and in his 30's and I am in my 20's also tall, dark, and handsome...
He made all of the girls go crazy during our flight to the west coast. I was the only one that didn't say anything because I was taken. He didn't know that and asked if would like to go out when we get to our destination. I said yes at first because that is what we do is go out with the crew. I noticed that I found myself attracted to him and we clicked on the flight. Some flight attendants gave him their number but it was clear that he was attracted to me.
When we got to the hotel lobby to check in, he asked if I was going to go out with himand I said no because I didn't want anything to happen. I couldn't trust myself because I found myself sexually attracted to him and we had chemistry. He was quite persistent in a sweet way but I kindly declined. As soon as I walked to my room, I regretted it. I thought about him everyday for a week and sent him a letter in his mailbox at work just to hang out as friends.
I spoke to him the other day and he invited me to travel to another country and finally told him that I had a boyfriend and he said that's too bad and he's coming for me. The pilot is more stable for me but my current boyfriend and I have something so good and rare. Then our conversation on the phone turned into something intimate. I always think about the pilot and how much I should be with him. I haven't spoken to him in a few days after he found out that I had a boyfriend. I am at a lost here and will not cheat on him. I just can't leave him for the other man. What should I do? Give me your frank opinion because I need it.
He made all of the girls go crazy during our flight to the west coast. I was the only one that didn't say anything because I was taken. He didn't know that and asked if would like to go out when we get to our destination. I said yes at first because that is what we do is go out with the crew. I noticed that I found myself attracted to him and we clicked on the flight. Some flight attendants gave him their number but it was clear that he was attracted to me.
When we got to the hotel lobby to check in, he asked if I was going to go out with himand I said no because I didn't want anything to happen. I couldn't trust myself because I found myself sexually attracted to him and we had chemistry. He was quite persistent in a sweet way but I kindly declined. As soon as I walked to my room, I regretted it. I thought about him everyday for a week and sent him a letter in his mailbox at work just to hang out as friends.
I spoke to him the other day and he invited me to travel to another country and finally told him that I had a boyfriend and he said that's too bad and he's coming for me. The pilot is more stable for me but my current boyfriend and I have something so good and rare. Then our conversation on the phone turned into something intimate. I always think about the pilot and how much I should be with him. I haven't spoken to him in a few days after he found out that I had a boyfriend. I am at a lost here and will not cheat on him. I just can't leave him for the other man. What should I do? Give me your frank opinion because I need it.