i have a friend that swears he is straight he has been recently going to 'massage parlers' to pay for sex with woman but we believe this is to only try and prove to us he is straight as he cant get a girlfriend himself due to bad odder problems or could he just be trying to trick himself into believing hes straigh?? i have woke up many time with him stood next to my bed watching me sleep im getting quite worried but am scared to bring the subject up with him what should i do please help????