JohnMurdock
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And here goes the story which really is going to go left field for most...
I am just going to throw "bits" out, thinking a lot faster then how I know how to write all of this in a quick way so hopefully someone will understand.
I have a girlfriend for 8 months, really I just go with things cause we are in our twenties, my focus is on college, research, money and just some hobbies, I am very independent and yet my girlfriend is a very extroverted individual which attracts me, over emotional irrational behavior I suppose and I don't know why, she is actually to much of a over emotional person, never shed a tear, and don't care what happens if she were to leave, I would like it for to leave, just enjoy having her around sometimes cause I see her as a subject to further my research, not even a girlfriend.
Emotions are seen to me as something mysterious and as uncontrollable as they are unalterable. Hence, the root of the fear of emotions is the fear that they cannot be controlled. If I wish to encourage my emotional girlfriend, I tend to resort to giving T-based solutions to the problems involved. Often I don't really know how to empathize and may feel discomfort and helplessness, especially when she understands the rational basis for the emotions. I become frustrated that my girlfriend remains unhappy in spite of hearing my solutions, logical, rational solutions... Much worse is when she becomes being irrational. I detest irrational emotion above all things. I must take a very wide berth around people who appear to be irrationally, outwardly emotional. A very sensitive trait and fear the potential excesses of the emotional attacks which do not yield to a defense based on logic....
Very Clean, my environment is key and I have a full system to it. secretive by nature but not in some weird way, I just don't trust people, so much responsibility to go with it.
I tried to give you some traits to describe myself, anyone experience this... This emotion, sex is just too deep and I need to detach myself from it somehow. Help me with this question, cause it is just not about refraction time period, I will get the typical sexual emotion, suppose to meet this girl the next day after talking and spend hours, irrational time spent I used up then end up releasing this sexual urge alone and just get so upset and end it immediately time it happens and never talk to the person again, talking past-tense, I done this several times and past up sex over and over again... I rather spend time alone, my personal projects, hobbies and research I do,
any ideas, and not gay... low sex drive, Dr Drew anybody - 1 - 2 times a week is plenty he say's and I quote cause he gets this question enough times usually from irrational females thinking of other reasons, according to Dr Drew, 1 - 2 times is at the beginning and says it will become once a month and what not..
I am just going to throw "bits" out, thinking a lot faster then how I know how to write all of this in a quick way so hopefully someone will understand.
I have a girlfriend for 8 months, really I just go with things cause we are in our twenties, my focus is on college, research, money and just some hobbies, I am very independent and yet my girlfriend is a very extroverted individual which attracts me, over emotional irrational behavior I suppose and I don't know why, she is actually to much of a over emotional person, never shed a tear, and don't care what happens if she were to leave, I would like it for to leave, just enjoy having her around sometimes cause I see her as a subject to further my research, not even a girlfriend.
Emotions are seen to me as something mysterious and as uncontrollable as they are unalterable. Hence, the root of the fear of emotions is the fear that they cannot be controlled. If I wish to encourage my emotional girlfriend, I tend to resort to giving T-based solutions to the problems involved. Often I don't really know how to empathize and may feel discomfort and helplessness, especially when she understands the rational basis for the emotions. I become frustrated that my girlfriend remains unhappy in spite of hearing my solutions, logical, rational solutions... Much worse is when she becomes being irrational. I detest irrational emotion above all things. I must take a very wide berth around people who appear to be irrationally, outwardly emotional. A very sensitive trait and fear the potential excesses of the emotional attacks which do not yield to a defense based on logic....
Very Clean, my environment is key and I have a full system to it. secretive by nature but not in some weird way, I just don't trust people, so much responsibility to go with it.
I tried to give you some traits to describe myself, anyone experience this... This emotion, sex is just too deep and I need to detach myself from it somehow. Help me with this question, cause it is just not about refraction time period, I will get the typical sexual emotion, suppose to meet this girl the next day after talking and spend hours, irrational time spent I used up then end up releasing this sexual urge alone and just get so upset and end it immediately time it happens and never talk to the person again, talking past-tense, I done this several times and past up sex over and over again... I rather spend time alone, my personal projects, hobbies and research I do,
any ideas, and not gay... low sex drive, Dr Drew anybody - 1 - 2 times a week is plenty he say's and I quote cause he gets this question enough times usually from irrational females thinking of other reasons, according to Dr Drew, 1 - 2 times is at the beginning and says it will become once a month and what not..