okay. please no hyprocrites. just real adults with experience please answer. Im 18 and ive found the love of my life. this guy respects me to the fullest. he never once felt on me sexually or pressured me to have sex with him. we never even discussed sex until last week when we were asking each other questions and we discussed how we would wait until each of us are both ready for sexual relations. by the way we have been together for 3months now and we are both 18. my question is basically.... after we have reached our one year annivarsary i would tell him i was ready to have sex tht is if everything between him and i are still going beyond well. can someone be honest and tell me if sex during teenage years is better than waiting till im an adult and married...i know its culturally right to wait but am i missing out? we are both virgins and i kniw in my heart tht if i lost my virginity to him i wouldnt regret it. im his first love and i know i can trust him . would love to have sex with him and i have already wrote out and valued the pros and cons on if we did have sex and ofcourse the cons naturally outweighed the pros but only from religious aspects. i am not a dumb lovestruck girl i just want to hear from an adults point of view about if being young and having sex with one guy tht i can trust more fun than waiting till marriage. or just being young and having responsible sex better anyway? is it more fun? am i missing out if i dont have this fun now? thanks so much for reading and appreciate all responses and advice. thanks 