sexuality confusion?????

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purpleheartssbetches

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i'm really confused. i know i should stay away from all of these labels but people are constantky asking me these sorta questions.

okay so i guess ive been kinda bi-curious for the past year or two. last year i kinda had a crush on two girls that went to my school. they were both dating at the time and were both into me.

now this year i kinda fell in love with one of the girls that i had a cruch on the year before. she also liked me and fell in love with me. we started dating and i kinda messed things up between us because i was afraid of being in a relationship with a girl. i guess i was sorta afrais of what people would think. but then again i was sorta weirded out about the whole fact of me dating a girl. so she broke up with me but we ended up getting back together.

we had a pretty good relationship for about 3 months on and off.
were now broken up again because of some things that i really dont want to bring up yet even think about.

and i dont know..i guess i'm just really really confused.

i find myself attracted to girls..but also guys.
i was kinda more into girls but now im more into guys...i think
i really dont know.

i think im straight but just into some girls. but then again maybe i know deep down that im bisexual but i just dont want to except it...

what do you think???
 
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avenue

New member
I think that there's no such thing as sexuality.
If we were all should, wandering around, looking exactly the same, categorised only by our personality, we wouldn't know if what we were falling in love with was a boy or a girl.
So why should having the knowledge of their gender determine whether you should love them or not?
After all, you love them for who they are, should it really matter WHAT they are?
 
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MarieMcKnow

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Sexuality for most people is fluid. Only a small percentage of people are truely 100% gay or 100% straight. You might be somewhere int he middle and that fluxuates. It's alright. you don't need a label. You just love based on the person and that's cool too.
 
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