she's spreading rumors about me.HELP PLEASEEE!?

my current bf's ex hates me and shes telling EVERYONE that the only reason he asked me out was because she told him too.and i asked him and he said she was lying and stuff but then my best friend got a text from this guy saying "thats hilarious that the only reason theyre going out is cuz he was made to!" and now everyones feeling sorry for me and taking pity on me and idk what to do!!please help me
 

Wolfy

Member
Just ignore them all. I was once worried about what others thought of me but that just creates more stress than necessary. It's their opinion and theirs only. As long as your bf verified with you that he's going out with you because he wants to then I think you'll be fine.

If the trouble frmo everyone gets out of hand and they are really being stupid about it, confront them and set things straight and leave the topic behind once you have addressed it. Don't make an arguement or case about it, just leave it.
 

stacyc

New member
It seems to me that she is jealous. Just ignore it and if anyone mentions it, just say "Oh she's just making it up. How childish!" This is seriously immature. So good luck and just ignore the rumors.
 

Nick

Active member
Everytime someone says that to you, ask them why the love is not running out. Why are you two still together? If he came to you because she asked him to, why is he still sticking by you. You must have some good qualities that he likes. If you two love each other, its nobody's business how you guys met and where you met.
 

eerawrt

New member
hmm well first off don't do anything mean back.
karma will get her.. just wait and see.
i really wish i had an answer for you,, but this is really
hard to answer. you could tell pple that she's just
jealous. you could ignore pple's pitty... i really don't know.
i'm sorry :(
 

eerawrt

New member
hmm well first off don't do anything mean back.
karma will get her.. just wait and see.
i really wish i had an answer for you,, but this is really
hard to answer. you could tell pple that she's just
jealous. you could ignore pple's pitty... i really don't know.
i'm sorry :(
 
oh boy.

hunny...in a couple of years when your relationships aren't all about what he said and she said...you will understand how silly this is.

but since i was your age once, i understand that at this point its hard. ignore the rumors. by next week someone will have done something else to get everyone talking.
 
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