i learned i was pregnant last week. i am going on vacation in 3 weeks. if i abort before, will i be fully recovered for my trip? or should i just wait till after? i will be drinking and partying on the trip, but that doesnt matter if it hurts the baby since i am aborting anyway, right? my boyfriend won't be on the trip so i also think its an advantage to be pregnant while away because then i can have sex with whoever i want and not get pregnant. should i abort before or after my vacation?