that he's not getting me anything? My sort of boyfriend and I are 16 years old. I was planning on buying him a gift, but I just found out that he probably isn't getting me anything since his parents don't want us around each other (alone) as long as we're not officially dating. We love each other, and we've been together for the last year and a half. We were officially dating for last Christmas and we got each other very thoughtful gifts. I would still love to get him something, but I don't know if it would make him feel bad that he didn't get me anything, Also, I would probably end up getting upset that I put in a lot of thought for his gift and he didn't do the same. What do you think I should do? Also, in general, do you think that if a guy really cares about a girl, they should be able to do even just a little something?