I was dating this abusive guy who treated me badly - at the time when he was still acting nice, this other guy let's call him Jay started to show interest in me..it was someone I didn't know and the way he used to keep staring freaked me out at first, I was wondering why is he staring at me all the time? He would always find ways to be where I was and would tell his friends about me. I just ignored him and I ignored the fact that he was very very good looking lol. It was a weird thing like I went towards abusive people but was scared of nice, decent guys. Like I didn't deserve that.
Because I was being 'loyal' to this abusive guy..I ignored any other male attention and refused to think about 'Jay' even though I think deep down I liked him.
After I ended it with the abusive guy, I kept thinking about this 'Jay' and realised that I actually liked him because I kept thinking about him. I also remembered how when he talked to his friends about me, i caught him a few times..he didn't know I was coming along and I heard him talking.
He said, 'She just makes me feel so calm, when I see her..this sounds gay but it really makes my day', he stared into space (he's got these ice blue eyes) with a dreamy look on his face, then realised I was walking by and said 'hi' to me his cheeks went red lol. That was the last time I saw him which was a few months go...Im thinking of going back to the gym where he hangs out (I used to go there a lot)...in fact I might go this afternoon but if he's there...should I try talking to him or not?
Because I was being 'loyal' to this abusive guy..I ignored any other male attention and refused to think about 'Jay' even though I think deep down I liked him.
After I ended it with the abusive guy, I kept thinking about this 'Jay' and realised that I actually liked him because I kept thinking about him. I also remembered how when he talked to his friends about me, i caught him a few times..he didn't know I was coming along and I heard him talking.
He said, 'She just makes me feel so calm, when I see her..this sounds gay but it really makes my day', he stared into space (he's got these ice blue eyes) with a dreamy look on his face, then realised I was walking by and said 'hi' to me his cheeks went red lol. That was the last time I saw him which was a few months go...Im thinking of going back to the gym where he hangs out (I used to go there a lot)...in fact I might go this afternoon but if he's there...should I try talking to him or not?