should you ever stay with someone just because you like being in a relationship?

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I broke up with my girlfriend because I was frustrated that she never wanted to go out and our sex life was kind of lacking. Looking back I still think our relationship wasn't that great, but I liked having someone in my life in a romantic way, and for that reason I kind of regret breaking up with her. Is it ever a good idea to stay in a relationship just because you like being in a relationship, even if you and the person don't match that well?
 
No it isnt. there are so many people out there, you are wasting your time on one person that you arent meant to be with when you could be finding the one you are. its not fair to her or to you to continue on when you really dont want to be there. get out there and look around!
 
NO. You have to actually love the person your with, enjoy being with them otherwise there is just no damn point and your just hurting yourself in the end.
 
If you're looking to pass the time then sure. But if you'd like to live life and experience passion towards someone then don't settle.

I've been in relationships where it was just comfortable and easy, they were nice because I never felt alone.

But now i'm married to someone who challenges me everyday... I actually crave him. I wouldn't want to ever give him up.
 
no actually its not good. A lot of people do that too though. they stay in a relationship for security or for the reason of being lonely or for other reasons besides love. But while you're in the relationship the other person could be getting hurt because what if they're in love with you and thats why they wanna be with you. But then you're only in the relationship because you like the feeling of being in a relationship. Things won't be that great because maybe its just not meant to be. you have to think of how its gonna hurt the other person too
 
NO

but at the same time lacking at sex is a crappy reason to break up with some one,
I SUCK at sex, i only last 5 mins tops, i have a problem tho. my penise will never work right, yet my girl loves me for WHO i am and has for the past 6 years. their is more to the relationship then sex it is a lasting friendship that reaches beyond that of normal best friends!
now if your relationship was lacking in THAT department, then yes you made the right choice!
 
That's never a good idea. Relationships are not merely touching a girl and enjoying the experience. You have to match, you were right, that was no true relationship you were in.
 
You should never stay in that kind of relationship. And this is why you should wait for sex. It makes things complicated.
 
if u did 'love' her why would u use her like that?
while ur with someone u dont love ur soul mate could be staring right in ur blind eye?
 
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