SHy or not interested???????

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There is this cute guy I see where I go to study a few miles from my home at my University I attend. I've been noticing him, pacing around all the time whenever I'm around, watches me, smiles at me a lot, we are talking a huge goofy smile. (Sometimes I wonder if he is okay? Maybe he is high? kidding) I think it's adorable, not sure how to talk to him. He randomly lingered around my room, and I dont know what it was I just had this gut feeling that something was about to happen. As i approached my room, he's by the magazine stand and then randomly asks "hey do you have a pen I could borrow" with this huge goofy smile on his face. He looked so nervous. I thought it was cute because I knew that's not why he was asking me that. When i gave him the pen, he saw what I had been reading and complimented me. I came back and i couldn't find the pen (I lied, i found it, i just needed a reason to talk to him again) And then I pretended to lose the pen, and he got upset thinking he lost it. Then I waited a week and told him I found it. Whenever he leaves he smiles at me.

Since then, i've noticed he always seems to be in a study room next to me. Yesterday I was there and he was in the next room. I walked by and he looks at me. I thought I had to do something.. didn't know what, so i just went over and asked him for lined paper, and i think i startled him because when i came in he looked nervous or distracted. He kind of stumbled "uh yeah, no i have blank paper" and i noticed there was stuff scribbled on the paper, i asked "oh are you sure you dont need this" he said "no no, its fine you can use it." I think i really startled him, i did not mean to. His hands were shaking and they finally rested on his head. I said thanks and walked away. Did I do something wrong? Was that i dont know.. lame? I mean I only acted because this guy has been acting weird around me for months now, the pacing, always making it a habit to walk by me.

Yeah was this stupid of me?
 
I really don't know why so many people come on Yahoo! Answers and ask me to read some stranger's mind based on a couple paragraphs.

You're more than capable of asking him yourself, and if you don't, then chances are, nothing will ever come of this.

Why don't you ask him point blank if he wants to have lunch with you, and bring this up over lunch??
 
i dont fully understand what happened...
he seems interested though,
i think you should definitely continue talking
maybe ask him out to lunch or something
if he doesnt take the initiative first
 
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