My sister and I are twins (not identical). We've always done everything together. We both met our husbands at the same college, both got engaged during the same trip, and both got married at the same time. Now we both want to get pregnant at the same time, so we can raise our kids together. There's a problem though, I am pregnant and she is not, even though she's been trying. I haven't told her yet, but I know she will be really sad and maybe even angry at me for getting pregnant before her. I'm going to get an abortion if she doesn't get pregnant soon, even though I don't want to terminate the pregnancy since my relationship with her is so close and I don't want my child to burden that. What is the recovery time for abortion? Is it something that I will be able to easily hide from my husband? How long until I can start having sex again too after the abortion? And how we can guarantee we get pregnant together next time?