Smart People Only-What Went WRONG In This Convo lol?

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FACEBOOK CONVO~MESSAGING

Guy says-how are you Sara? i hope all is well beautiful

Girl says-Hey I'm fine, thanks

*few days later**

Guy says- so what have you been up to Love

Girl says- just livin life....u?

Guy says- Me too in Chicago taking care of business...where r u Sara.. do u remember me from University lol

Girl says- I'm still in TX, working my way out lol....& yes I remember seeing you around at school.

Guy says- Lol okay... i remeber seeing you as well lol... i dont kno why i wasnt being a gentlemen and introduce myself.. so shy of me... i always thought your were a beautiful women...

Girl says: We're all a lil shy sometimes so it's cool...thanks for the compliment by the way...

Guy says- So how is the weather. out there...

Girl- **does not respond & convo ends**
 
The girl obviously got creeped out by how strong the guy came on to her, and logged off facebook. This will probably result in a deletion of the guy as a friend by the girl
 
you came off fake. you don't know her well enough to use the terms love and beautiful. and in fact, reading the convo kind of scared me, sounded, creepy.

*also a side note, she never really asked you any questions back, but politely responded to yours, so it sounds like she really wasn't interested in talking to you.
 
The main problem is that it looks like you two hardly know each other and yet the guy is acting like he's confident that he wants her and finds her attractive. The girl is probably thinking he's shallow or a player because he doesn't know her and keeps talking about her looks. If he were really interested, he would ask about her interests, hobbies, etc. He would actually try to get to know her.

Oh, and using the word "love" on a girl when you're not daing her also indicates you are likely a player. No girl wants a guy who calls every girl "love." We don't feel special when a guy does that.
 
There are 3 laughable mistakes but the good news is we'll laugh at you so you don't make the same mistake again =P

1) *few days later* - Why would you need this? lol? You only need a few days until texting or phoning her when you get her number. That's the randomest place to put the 3 day gap.

2) Guy says- Lol okay... i remeber seeing you as well lol... i dont kno why i wasnt being a gentlemen and introduce myself.. so shy of me... i always thought your were a beautiful women... Guy says- So how is the weather. out there...

Instead you should have said, "The funny thing is when I was at school and so were you I was curious what it would have been like if we got a chance to hang out. What are you doing this weekend?"

3) Guy says- So how is the weather. out there...

All I can say to that one is AAAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! lmfao!!!

#2 where is where things started to go down in a downward spiral but this is simply just a consequence of it. You shorted out the conversation in #2 so there was little to talk about but this line, "How's the weather" is a surefire way to kill the mood. It's a cheesy cheesy cheesy thing to say and very awkward and embarassing.

Instead you could have rebounded it by saying, "Thank you. I gave you a free compliment because you make me feel complimented =P"
 
The guy is being overly awkward and obvious while the girl is being a bit of a bitch.
 
She probably just stopped paying attention, or like went on another site or something, I'm pretty sure its nothing you said.

Answer mine?

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I think it just went a bit awkward.. doesn't seem like you have been talking much. Going from "beautiful" to "weather" is a bit different. Also, it depends on if one of them is into someone else etc. Then perhaps they don't want to make things awkward.

I think it was just a bad layout of conversations
 
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