[[my_own_private_war]]
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i need some reassurance that what i did wasn't wrong...
I've known this boy for 3 years. His name is Alex. We went out for 8 months and then broke up because i guess i wasn't good enough for him. I can accept that. I moved on. well a couple months after we break up he texts me and asks what's goin on and started simple chit chat...I didn't mind it, i kinda missed him...So then he's sayin he missed me and all this bs about how i didn't call him when we were broken up and blah blah blah i didn't know i was supposed to...a couple more months go by and i meet this guy. His name is kyle...
Kyle is wonderful. But i'll spare you the mushy details =]
Alex continues to text me. I've informed him that i'm in a relationship and he's cool with it. BUt then he gets angry when he asks if i've had sex with him and i don't tell him. or if i contradict myself when i'm answering.
He's kinda verbally abusive when he thinks i don't take time out of my life to "call a friend"
Well, last night, he called me and i didn't answer and so he texted me and asked what i was doing and then he's saying stuff like "what're you doin,? Effin your new boyfriend? Geez, what a hoe..." and then he's like "I miss you and i miss the old days when we used to fool around and you used to be crazy about me"
I decided i was tired of his rude comments and his abuse. and strait out told him to accept the fact i've moved on and he should do the same because if he's looking for more than friend ship he ain't gonna find it here, and i told him that if he wants to accuse me of having a life than so be it....i think i might have curse a couple of times...but do you think i was too harsh?
I know i let the situation get way out of hand, but we used to be good friends i just figured he actually missed me, but apparently i'm nothin more than a booty call.
I've known this boy for 3 years. His name is Alex. We went out for 8 months and then broke up because i guess i wasn't good enough for him. I can accept that. I moved on. well a couple months after we break up he texts me and asks what's goin on and started simple chit chat...I didn't mind it, i kinda missed him...So then he's sayin he missed me and all this bs about how i didn't call him when we were broken up and blah blah blah i didn't know i was supposed to...a couple more months go by and i meet this guy. His name is kyle...
Kyle is wonderful. But i'll spare you the mushy details =]
Alex continues to text me. I've informed him that i'm in a relationship and he's cool with it. BUt then he gets angry when he asks if i've had sex with him and i don't tell him. or if i contradict myself when i'm answering.
He's kinda verbally abusive when he thinks i don't take time out of my life to "call a friend"
Well, last night, he called me and i didn't answer and so he texted me and asked what i was doing and then he's saying stuff like "what're you doin,? Effin your new boyfriend? Geez, what a hoe..." and then he's like "I miss you and i miss the old days when we used to fool around and you used to be crazy about me"
I decided i was tired of his rude comments and his abuse. and strait out told him to accept the fact i've moved on and he should do the same because if he's looking for more than friend ship he ain't gonna find it here, and i told him that if he wants to accuse me of having a life than so be it....i think i might have curse a couple of times...but do you think i was too harsh?
I know i let the situation get way out of hand, but we used to be good friends i just figured he actually missed me, but apparently i'm nothin more than a booty call.