Our fraternities are not supposed to have kegs at social functions like a lot of other schools can, but it's always free beer/ shots/ drinks. I think I've paid for alcohol twice since I came here in the fall.
Anyone who says fraternities are 'gay' or 'fucking stupid' has no idea what they are talking about. Either you just listen to whatever you're told by your friends or you go to a school with shitty fraternities.
Edit: Yes, 'frats' are retarded unless you like drugging women and such. However, fraternities are where you'll find the real gentlemen at. Never call them 'frats'.