...meet him again? We met a few weeks ago & have been chatting lots. He wanted to date me even though I'm years older (40s & he's 30). True, I'm in good shape and look 35 or so. Anyhow we've met up twice and got on. I told him I'd like to go slowly as I'm leaving for another country in a week or so. I also told him I didn't think it could work as I'm moving. He was adamant that it could if the people were madly in love. Anyhow, we met up 2 nights ago, we hugged goodnight as I got my bus & he texted me saying he wanted to give me a proper kiss. He chatted with me again today and asked if I'd like to meet up again tomorrow. He also said "I was thinking about what you said before about how we both dont want a fling, I was thinking if we meet up again and we get any closer because you're going away, then thats what it will become, I was also thinking that because I am planning on going travelling next year that I would be leading anyone I go out with on". When he said this to me I immediately thought 'oh, yeah sure, he's just not that into me'. Anyhow, he wants to meet up still, I said as friends? He said he thinks we'd make great friends but he still would love to kiss me! I said well we'll see. Now I don't know whether to meet him as I am definitely attracted to him now, I feel I am falling for him but he seems to be a bit confused/apprehensive but still wants to meet? What should I do?