TiffanyBlock
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- Oct 17, 2010
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OKAY so i have been dating my bf for over 3 years. we are in highschool. we have our ups and downs a lot. and i will admit he tells me what i cant wear and who i cant talk to. we have broken up many times before but they only last 2 weeks and we always talked like we were going out. dumb. but when this school year started about a month and a half ago we broke up a lot like ever other week we were together or we werent. and during those time i learned to be more independent and stuff and learned more about myself. but i still loved him and would do anything for him. like if i were like yeah! ima do whatever i want now!! he would text me with a sad face or something and id be like no no no i need him! he is disrecpectful to me sometimes like if i wore a shirt during the day that he saw me in then later on after not seeing him we go out to eat together and he will be like you are still wearing that shirt??? and he hates that im shy and he always makes me go clean my house even when he is not coming over. it makes me sad that i drop all my plans and everything for him. and here is where the BIG drama kicks in...
my mom is dating this guy for the past 6 months or so i dont support their relationship because after 2 months of him knowing her he proposed to her??? and he just got divorced from his 2nd wife... but anyways my bf cannot stand the fact my mom dates him. especially because my mom goes and sleeps over at his house while i stay home by myself. but im fine!! and he throws fits about it! and he said if she ever marrys him he will leave me. its not fair and im terrfied if he finds out that my mom might be going to court to marry him monday : (( she says he wont move in with us it will be how its always been but idk........... i figure if things stay the same whats the point in telling him??
THEN okay he has gotten a little better on how he treats me this week and actually tried to show that he is lovey dovey with me... but today he and his sister called and were like hey can we drop by?? and im like uhhhhhhhhh i guess [i was stressed because he had tolled me to clean earlier that day but i didnt wanna so i lied] so they came in and i was hoping that the house looked good enough for him [IT WASNT EVEN BAD] but anyways i gave him a cupcake and there was a lot of icing on it and dropped a tiny on the cement outside and said im sure your mom wont mind anyways! and his sis is always saying THATS SO DISRECPECTFUL to him when hes around me so thats what she said. then he got icing on him and i kept saying umm you got a little on your lip and he was like INSTEAD OF JUST STARRING AT IT GO GET ME A NAPKIN.. then he saw my mom leave to go to her bfs and he got in the car and said mannnnn F THIS SHIIIIT and stuff and drove off. i went in my house and suddenly reacted and sent him a text saying "since you cant respect me, my house, or family i dont think we should be together" right when i sent it he called and apologized for how he acted and ask me out to dinner with his family BUT THENNNNN he was like wait i got a text [silence] i was sooooooo sad and wish i didnt send it. i still went out to dinner but he was like dont talk to me about getting back together!!!!! and was saying a lot of mean stuff and i was like i reacted without thinking about it when i sent the text but then he was like man i want a girl who doesnt do this and that!!! blah blah blah. i feel really guilty because i do love him but i also hate how he treats me sometimes but MOST OF ALL i feel sooo mad because when he actually did show affection towards me this week i was really happy but now i blew it and now my mom might be getting married and its a mess! PLEASE PLEASE HELP i know this is soo long but idk............. : (
my mom is dating this guy for the past 6 months or so i dont support their relationship because after 2 months of him knowing her he proposed to her??? and he just got divorced from his 2nd wife... but anyways my bf cannot stand the fact my mom dates him. especially because my mom goes and sleeps over at his house while i stay home by myself. but im fine!! and he throws fits about it! and he said if she ever marrys him he will leave me. its not fair and im terrfied if he finds out that my mom might be going to court to marry him monday : (( she says he wont move in with us it will be how its always been but idk........... i figure if things stay the same whats the point in telling him??
THEN okay he has gotten a little better on how he treats me this week and actually tried to show that he is lovey dovey with me... but today he and his sister called and were like hey can we drop by?? and im like uhhhhhhhhh i guess [i was stressed because he had tolled me to clean earlier that day but i didnt wanna so i lied] so they came in and i was hoping that the house looked good enough for him [IT WASNT EVEN BAD] but anyways i gave him a cupcake and there was a lot of icing on it and dropped a tiny on the cement outside and said im sure your mom wont mind anyways! and his sis is always saying THATS SO DISRECPECTFUL to him when hes around me so thats what she said. then he got icing on him and i kept saying umm you got a little on your lip and he was like INSTEAD OF JUST STARRING AT IT GO GET ME A NAPKIN.. then he saw my mom leave to go to her bfs and he got in the car and said mannnnn F THIS SHIIIIT and stuff and drove off. i went in my house and suddenly reacted and sent him a text saying "since you cant respect me, my house, or family i dont think we should be together" right when i sent it he called and apologized for how he acted and ask me out to dinner with his family BUT THENNNNN he was like wait i got a text [silence] i was sooooooo sad and wish i didnt send it. i still went out to dinner but he was like dont talk to me about getting back together!!!!! and was saying a lot of mean stuff and i was like i reacted without thinking about it when i sent the text but then he was like man i want a girl who doesnt do this and that!!! blah blah blah. i feel really guilty because i do love him but i also hate how he treats me sometimes but MOST OF ALL i feel sooo mad because when he actually did show affection towards me this week i was really happy but now i blew it and now my mom might be getting married and its a mess! PLEASE PLEASE HELP i know this is soo long but idk............. : (