Me and my fiance love sex and have been thinking about just seeing what the lifestyle is about. Which leads me to my question. Why do people hate and crucify swingers??? Especially a lot of men knowing that if 2 women wanted to do him he would in a heartbeat?? It's just like some people who dont get a lot of sex say "Yea that is so disgusting. I only sleep with one person" but then they sleep in bed a lone while their husband is on the couch. First off "successful" swingers have lower divorce rates then people who dont. So is it they hate swingers b/c they dont have the balls or self esteem to explore whatever fantasies they may have or is there some legitimate" other reason?? It's like swingers are the JEWS of the 21st century lol